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What do you do when you’re just too tired to cook or make anything.

A MyKidneyDiseaseTeam Member asked a question 💭
Metropolis, IL

I was diagnosed with CKD stage 4 on Thursday. All my other numbers were great. It’s so frustrating because my last visit I was told I was at stage 3b which is the first time I heard that. I deppped fast food, datkcolired sodas and almost all the foods I love. Now I’m at stage 4. Sometimes it doesn’t seem worth it

August 22
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A MyKidneyDiseaseTeam Member

I understand, Jen. I fell to stage 4 recently as well. I'm very exhausted most of the time, and certainly don't feel like cooking. I'm constantly looking at ingredients in food and most of them, I can't eat them anymore. I'm trying my best to be positive, but it gets hard. So I feel you.

August 22
MyKidneyDiseaseTeam

First, it's completely understandable to feel frustrated and discouraged right now. Progressing to stage 4 after making such real sacrifices — giving up fast food, dark sodas, and foods you love — feels deeply unfair. Those feelings are valid, and many others in your situation have felt exactly the same way.

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First, it's completely understandable to feel frustrated and discouraged right now. Progressing to stage 4 after making such real sacrifices — giving up fast food, dark sodas, and foods you love — feels deeply unfair. Those feelings are valid, and many others in your situation have felt exactly the same way.

Here's the thing though: those changes you made absolutely matter. They may have slowed things down more than you realize, and they remain important for protecting what kidney function you still have. Fatigue is one of the most common symptoms at stage 4, so struggling to cook is very real and not just laziness. Here are some practical ideas for low-effort, kidney-friendly eating:

- Batch cook on better energy days and refrigerate or freeze portions
- Simple whole foods like eggs, rice, or cooked vegetables require minimal prep
- Ask your nephrologist for a referral to a renal dietitian — they can help build an easy, realistic meal plan
- Grocery store rotisserie options can work in a pinch — just watch sodium levels

The most important step is talking to your care team about both the fatigue and the meal planning challenges. You don't have to figure this out alone.

August 22

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