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July 18
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What a wonderful friend you are for wanting to support her through dialysis! After those sessions, she's likely to feel wiped out, so your support can make a real difference.

Here are some practical ways to help:

- Offer rides to and from dialysis — those sessions can leave her exhausted
- Bring low-key company on her off Show Full Answer

What a wonderful friend you are for wanting to support her through dialysis! After those sessions, she's likely to feel wiped out, so your support can make a real difference.

Here are some practical ways to help:

- Offer rides to and from dialysis — those sessions can leave her exhausted
- Bring low-key company on her off days, like a movie night or quiet time together
- Help with meals — keeping in mind she likely has dietary restrictions (low potassium, phosphorus, and sodium are common for dialysis patients)
- Check in via text or call on dialysis days so she knows you're thinking of her
- Help with errands like grocery shopping or picking up prescriptions
- Be flexible — some days she may need to cancel plans, and that's okay

The most important thing is simply being present and patient. Letting her know she doesn't have to explain herself every time she's too tired to socialize goes a long way.

It's also worth gently encouraging her to be open with you about what she needs most — everyone's experience is different. Having a 44-year friendship in her corner is truly priceless. 💙

July 18

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