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May 9
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A MyKidneyDiseaseTeam Member

The decision is a personal one and really up to you. I always share with my children and close family members. I'm very open sharing because I'm not unique and there are always some one with the same experience, if not personal, someone they know, and what is really important it educates and help others. I was let down after receiving my diagnosis and shared with my Sunday school class my huge concern. To me it was like receiving a death sentence, but to my surprise a young lady had received the diagnosis and her experience has been so helpful and calming. This group has been a blessing also. I couldn't imagine not sharing with my children we are so closed.

May 12
A MyKidneyDiseaseTeam Member

I couldn't give you a good answer here, but I don't see how it could be worse. It make sense to me to do both. My prayers My friend.

May 15
A MyKidneyDiseaseTeam Member

I did let them know. I am waiting for the hospital to call and the the date and time for biopsy. The said they have to do both kidneys does that mean something worse?

May 13
A MyKidneyDiseaseTeam Member

Thank you very much.

May 9
MyKidneyDiseaseTeam

Should you tell your family about your kidney disease diagnosis and upcoming biopsy? That's a deeply personal decision, and there's no single right answer β€” but here are some things worth considering.

A kidney biopsy does require some practical support, including:

- Someone to drive you home afterward, since you'll be on Show Full Answer

Should you tell your family about your kidney disease diagnosis and upcoming biopsy? That's a deeply personal decision, and there's no single right answer β€” but here are some things worth considering.

A kidney biopsy does require some practical support, including:

- Someone to drive you home afterward, since you'll be on medications that make driving unsafe
- Someone to help at home during recovery, as you'll need to rest for a couple of days
- Someone to monitor you for any warning signs like bleeding or infection

Having family support during recovery isn't just helpful β€” it can genuinely make the process easier and safer. Beyond the practical side, carrying a health concern like this alone can be emotionally heavy. Many people find that sharing with even one trusted person brings real relief.

Ultimately, how much you share, with whom, and when is entirely up to you. But given the recovery needs after a biopsy, having at least one person in your corner is strongly worth thinking about. Your care team can also offer guidance on how to have those conversations if it feels overwhelming.

May 9

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